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Jessica Valenti – Wretched

Tuesday, 1 July 2014, 3:10 BFH Home 0

I don’t often link WZ (don’t ask), but my good friend Moe Tom loves Zippers and he sent this to me, so we will make an exception. Also, I have an addendum to their post that I would like to draw some attention to.

First THIS disgusting thought by the slut Valenti

Now take a look at this.

Guardian

Mothers are supposed to feel an all-encompassing joy when they look at their children for the first time. But even now, as my daughter celebrates her first birthday, I’m still waiting.

The guilt of looking at my baby with fondness, not an overflow of emotion, is overwhelming.

I was so detached during the first months of my daughter’s life, that even after she came home from the hospital, I referred to her only as “the baby”. It was only when a friend asked over lunch why I didn’t call her by her name that I realised what I was doing.

But in a world that tells women that immediate and all-encompassing love for their children is the only “natural” response to birth, I didn’t stand a chance.

There’s no “natural” way to love a child.

If we really value parenting, if we value mothers and children, then we’ll lose the notion that there’s a proper way to love a baby.

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49 Comments on Jessica Valenti – Wretched

  1. OK, first, she needs to be on some kind of medication and counseling.

    2nd, PLEASE libs, take her advice. And when the cops are called because you are exposing yourselves and committing lewd acts in public and in front of minors, you will have that charge following you on your rap sheet for the rest of your pathetic lives. Go ahead. Be martyrs for your low informed non-cause. LoL!

    3rd. Seek professional help. Immediately. I hear 0bamacare covers that.

  2. Maternal instinct is a lie….well at least since the sixties

    Almost 80% of infanticide is at the hands of women, not men.
    Feminists have succeeded in lobbying the courts to deny men any say in abortion, as most men do not consent to their female partners to abort when they are pregnant.
    100% of ALL psychopaths and serial killers have had issues with over-bearing and dominating mothers.
    As more and more females become self-absorbed and narcissistic, you will see the rise of abuse and alienation of infants, toddlers and young children

  8. Another disturbed character. Notice how it’s all about what she’s getting or not getting out of having a baby — no happy congratulations, etc.

  11. When she was young..Valenti’s parents had to tie a pork-chop around her neck to get the dog to play with her, she’s that ugly! I have a feeling she slipped some Rohypnol into some poor guys.. umm, I meant to say “guy hooked on crack” ..drink just to get laid.

  12. Re: The Guardian article
    All I have to say is FU Guardian. The woman is obviously mentally ill and needs some real help. She makes hardly any mention of a support network. And you let her use the internet, probably in lieu of a psychiatrist to say, “I’m sick in the head, please empathize with people like me.”

  13. “Mothers are supposed to feel an all-encompassing joy when they look at their children for the first time. But even now, as my daughter celebrates her first birthday, I’m still waiting.”

    Re-read this and fathom what she’s saying. Her daughter is ONE YEAR OLD and she “is still waiting to feel joy” upon seeing her !!!!

    That SCREAMS out murderous narcissist, at least to me. At 1 yr, a baby is sitting up and it cannot contain a happy smile upon seeing you, it laughs, it wants to play and engage you….. how can that not bring you ABSOLUTE JOY, especially if you’re the mother, that was blessed to have birthed that child.

    Unless you are such a twisted, selfish, unworthy, POS that ONLY thinks of yourself (eg, Obama).

    Or you’re purposefully writing evil propaganda.

  14. I’m still waiting to feel the joy of knowing a little about Jessica. Her name from now on should be It.

    I do however feel a huge amount of happiness at seeing the left turning itself inside out over the Hobby Lobby decision. 😀

  15. Like MJA said, she needs psychotherapy NOW.

    Tsunami, assuming you’re not getting boinked by them, your pepper spray idea might get you an assault charge (or worse). Better to call the cops and take photographic evidence. But be sure to *share* some of that sticky-glue-glitter with them….

  16. I’ve backed away from this thread several times this morning because of the emotion it brings up in me. But here goes……….

    I was the unloved and unwanted child (oldest of 5). My mother is now on husband #7 and I will say no more about that except that I was in the way of her good times.

    My own son was a preemie. I was so happy to finally take my 4-1/2 lb. baby home to care for him myself even though it meant feeding every 2 hours for a time. Sleep was a luxury. I’d had plenty of practice with 4 younger siblings and a mother who really didn’t give a crap.

    When my son got married, baby #1 was born 5 years later. She was so wanted and the doctor allowed us to stay in the room for delivery – against hospital policy. We were told not to cheer since we weren’t suppose to be there.

    Then #2 was conceived. Our former DIL was not happy and said she would rather have another dog than another child. Our little Sarah was loved and wanted by 3 of the 4 adults in her life. When the girls were 1 and 3, our son moved in with his two babies. He was given physical custody of them 3/4 of the time, so during that time they were loved and well-cared for.

    Fortunately, they thrived and have become two beautiful adults who have thanked us for being there for them. I can’t imagine being any other place.

    I wonder what Valenti’s child will feel when she’s old enough to realize what her mother felt of didn’t feel about her baby.

    Sorry for the long dialog, but I am a little calmer now.

  17. Let me translate:
    A human leech is a drain on it’s mother and is of no value until it reaches the voting age. At that time, it will vote democrat and become a leech on society.

  19. My, but there is certainly a lot of love, compassion and understanding on this thread! A wonderful appreciation of the things that make some people one way, others another…..

    Your tolerance brings joy and understanding to the world.

    ….Lady in Red

  20. @Creepy Ass Cracka, “As more and more females become self-absorbed and narcissistic, you will see the rise of abuse and alienation of infants, toddlers and young children.”

    So true.
    Today’s “young” are more self-absorbed than ever. (In fact, I call them the “selfie generation”.)
    In my own extended family, there is a young lesbian woman who just HAD to have a baby. She went to China and adopted a little girl.
    In less than six months, she decided she just wasn’t “into” motherhood, so dumped the kid on her parents, who are in their SIXTIES.
    The grandmother is a screw-up herself, so that kid has no chance. It’s sad.

    @LIR, you’re pathetic and so predictable.
    Better if this self-absorbed nutjob had aborted, and saved herself all this angst. Right?

  21. Dumb twat. I’m supposed to feel bad for her for not experiencing the Baby Honeymoon Bliss? Like that was something promised to her? She probably thinks it’s up to her man to make her happy as well.

    Our middle daughter was born with Sturge Weber Syndrome, with a large port wine stain covering one fourth of her face, her first stroke by the age of four months, the second one at two years, paralysis, epilepsy, hundreds of thousands of dollars in bills, more doctors and therapy appointments than we could count…..the list goes on. Pseudo-panic disorder for me.

    And guess what? I could not help but kiss her face approximately every 18 seconds because my baby was exactly where God wanted her to be, with her daddy and I.

    I cannot muster up an iota of sympathy for this woman despite her daughter’s challenges, because while she’s beating her breast with a closed fist and wailing about it, she doesn’t realize she IS one of her daughter’s challenges.Yowsa pegged her. Narcissist.

  24. There was a simple solution for this selfish slob that could have mitigated this whole “problem”. Don’t get pregnant. If think you might get pregnant, then don’t fuck someone. That would have guaranteed no baby you don’t want.

    I know she’s doing this to emphasize a womans need to access abortion. I can speak to the opposite of this idea. When I was a young man I made the egregious mistake of thinking abortion was a good idea when I (at least I think it was mine) impregnated a girlfriend. I took her and paid for the abortion. 16 years later and there is not a single day that passes that I don’t think about what I’ve done, and what that’s meant. I’ve since married and now have a perfect 1yr old boy, and the love and affection I feel toward him only makes my past choice that much more difficult. Again…EVERY DAY OF MY LIFE I think about what might have been with great sorrow and guilt. So I guess the point is there are two sides to every coin, but unfortunately the only side we ever see our hear is that of this kind of human and her ilk.

  25. “My, but there is certainly a lot of love, compassion and understanding on this thread!”

    Yes…yes there is. It is centered on the child that has no chance with the type of ‘mother’ she unfortunately has no choice in.

    As for the mother, even here she is shown compassion…not from me though… but rather others who acknowledge she needs help in way of therapy. Personally, I consider therapy a waste of time, as most therapists need therapy themselves and are in fact under the aid of their own personal therapist, according to The American Psychological Association

    As usual though, your concept of love, compassion and understanding is distorted and basically can be summed in a single word: abortion

  27. @ Tormented,
    I must respond to your post.
    Please, please get some counseling – priestly or pastoral would be best – to help you forgive yourself.
    No action, no matter what was done, is unforgivable. You do not deserve to carry guilt. This only gives Satan the power instead of the forgiveness offered by God to those who truly repent.

  29. I’d here to praise my ex! One of the most touching moments of my life is when I walked in on her in the hospital room. She was holding own first born child, who was not even 24 hours old yet. She was looking at our daughter, in a radiant glow that only a new mother can have for her child. Thank you God, for showing me this miracle. My ex must have been thinking about the ordel and pain of giving birth, for she said was; “You were worth it”.
    Yes my ex and I have parted ways. S–t happens. But I will give her all due credit where credit is due. I hope this will make some ones day.

  31. My wife and I had 3 children, I wanted more but our youngest daughter now 25 was born with complications that caused her skull not to fuse the way it should have. After many surgeries when she was little she turned out to be the most normal and compassionate one of my 3 children because of all the trauma she went through. I wouldn’t change a thing and neither would my daughter. She’s getting her college degree in working with special needs children. There is a special purpose for every child and my daughter is proof of it.

  36. @Creepy Ass Cracka, “That’s just sick.”

    I hope you didn’t think that suggestion was serious.
    It was intended as sarcasm, directed at LIR, whose solution to most problems is abortion.

  37. “About half the time I held my daughter her heart rate would dip dangerously low or she would stop breathing and turn blue.”
    The poor baby could FEEL how much she wasn’t loved you dumbass hoe-bag! I am so sick of progs!

  39. Big Fan of your Avatar’s Dano, But the one does look like Sonny Crocket after a hard night of being passed around by the rest of the Vice Squad. Carry on please.

  40. AWD has three grown children. I have been in love with them since before they were born! They are my reason for being here and my reason for living! I would die and/or kill at a moments notice to protect their precious lives.

    I believe the way we love our children is deep inside our DNA. Just like a mama bear will attack anything that comes close to her cubs, we love what we bring into the world as it perpetuates life.

    Liberals have the same DNA but their minds are poisoned with leftist clap-trap dogma that seeks to de-humanize children at any cost. Leftists are sick and, as Diogenes says, without souls. That is how they can massacre millions without a single emotion as we have seen from them throughout history!

    Leftists should not breed. We’re all better off if they are homos.

    awd

  42. Ignore her, ignore her, aw crap…

    commence sarcasm counterbattery, fire for effect.

    It’s so great to see Lady in Red back, her lucid and rational thoughts just really lift me up. I’m so glad she’s here to elevate the discussion and to remind us of our shortcomings. Maybe someday I’ll achieve a womyn like enlightenment and I can then appreciate what a total bummer and inconvenience that little mass of tissue poses to it’s host. Gotta go now and oppress my wife, she needs me.

  43. It is true that sometimes you can be a little flat after a birth. It happens. I perceived a lack in myself after #2 was born, so I asked GOD to correct me and give me his love for her, and he did!
    There are solutions for these little problems.

  45. NO WIRE COAT HANGERS!

    I had to go out and lost track of where I was giving up thumbs. Every post, except 1, has earned an up thumb from me. Love the compassion and passion in this crowd.

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