Poll: #MeToo Movement Has Made More Men Fear Mentoring Women – IOTW Report

Poll: #MeToo Movement Has Made More Men Fear Mentoring Women

Breitbart: 

Polling by LeanIn.org via SurveyMonkey revealed that about 60 percent of male managers are “too nervous” to interact with women in many professional settings.

The key findings, according to the results published on Friday, suggest a new issue growing in this era of increasing accountability. First, that “60% of managers who are men are uncomfortable participating in a common work activity with a woman, such as mentoring, working alone, or socializing together.”

Senior-level male employees have also expressed hesitance to “spend time with junior women” as opposed to their male counterparts “across a range of basic work activities such as 1-on-1 meetings, travel, and work dinners.” These findings represent a 32 percent increase over 2018. Thirty-six percent more men now also actively avoid women in junior positions.  read more

30 Comments on Poll: #MeToo Movement Has Made More Men Fear Mentoring Women

  1. ENOUGH WHINING
    ENOUGH MOPING
    WE’RE NOT ABUSING
    WE’RE NOT GROPING
    RATHER THAN TWERKING
    TRY WORKING
    WE’RE TIRED OF THE BULLSHIT
    PLEASE GET OVER IT

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  2. Men can not tell women what to do. period. and shut the lights off fcuk it. you did it feminists no help no assistance yer on yer own sweetie honey sugar.Don’t knock door is locked.

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  3. It wasn’t just the metoo bowel movement. In 1996 I stopped interacting with females at work. I was accused of harassment when I performed a female student’s job in a DS0 class for Bell Atlantic. I performed her work because she sat on her hands and didn’t understand what in the whole fuck we were trying to do. I set up her “end”, and set up my “end” and did the tests that were required of US to be classed (and paid) as a Systems Technicians. She sent me to the board as a traitor, a circumnavigator, and a sexist.

    My defense was, “You didn’t do shit, after it was explained to you numerous times by numerous people… I don’t give a fuck if you are male, or female, YOU are a fucking loser. I got the job done.”

    What I learned was, sadly, pretend the females don’t exist.

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  4. The tag line in the linked story is that men need to commit to doing better. No, men are doing what they need to do in order to avoid a career ending problem. Feminists have created a culture where “all women must be believed” and “toxic masculinity is a problem.” Compliment a female on her appearance, tell a risque joke, or even look at a woman wrong and the male can be accused of sexual harassment. And apparently, according to the #metoo movement, we can examine men’s actions at any point in their lives and find men guilty; now, in the recent past, and thirty years ago. These are the rules that feminists have created and drilled into the minds of females by the media, the courts and universities. All men are doing is reacting to these rules in their own best interests. And men are saavy enough to avoid one on one contact with women in the workplace without admitting that they are avoiding one on one contact with women. “Why yes, I have to keep the door open. It’s stuffy in here.”

    The tagline cited above is a typical feminist tactic: “we created a problem, and now it’s up to the men to fix it.” Nope, this is a situation militant feminists created and they need to own it. More and more women approaching middle age are complaining “where have all the good men gone” – this after complaining that there is no such thing as a good man. Many men have gone away, most men have realized that fostering a relationship with someone at work is just too risky.

    Congratulations, women – men are taking your complaints seriously. The rate of marriage is down. The birth rate is down, and even the number of people cohabitating without marriage is down. Men don’t have a biological clock, and feminists have fostered a culture where there is no societal pressure for men to marry – so they don’t. You feminists are winning.

    Oh, and enjoy your cats.

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  5. After most of a lifetimes’ experience I figure
    about a 20% of women are barking dog, nuts.
    The old aggressive male taking advantage of the
    weak woman story has died in the HR operating room.
    All women today are very aware that they can use
    their sex as a weapon to destroy a mans’ career
    to further their own but most still have enough
    sense/morality not to take that route.
    The nutty 20% will do it in a heartbeat and are often
    able to hide it until the sucker punch hits home.
    Men have a hard enough time figuring out what is in
    the mind of any woman so the 20% are camouflaged.
    If I were still in the work force I’d be damn sure
    to stay away from any women unless it was a public meet
    with some male witnesses around. Even then I would
    keep my distance and talk strictly business at all times.
    Drinks after work? Just amputate now, Doc.

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  6. So now transvestites are destroying women’s sports, and women in the workplace have become radioactive.

    Ladies: next time around, know better than to take life advice from fat, angry lesbians.

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  7. Anonymous MAY 18, 2019 AT 11:57 PM

    That may have been 1998. It doesn’t matter. My point is this bullshit existed long before the interwebs were interwebs.

    This ^^

    Learned there were women I needed to use a 10′ pole around since childhood.

    We just called them Man Haters at the time. They would cause you trouble just because you were male. I use “male” because sometimes it was teachers making boys’ lives hell at school.

    It was everywhere, but now I just let it roll off me and make sure I don’t depend on people like that for anything, if possible. My ex had a low grade hate for men, but it was understandable considering two of her uncles sexually abused her starting at 5. Part of why she was attracted to me is I never acted like the bad men in her life. But it never went away and always showed up in little ways. Like always suggesting men against women on card games and such. Always. Not good.

    When I first came across Dr Laura Schlesinger on my radio dial I expected “men suck, everything is their fault”, but when it came to laying out what was going wrong in a caller’s life she did none of that crap. Personal responsibility for everyone!

    I became a fan of hers ever since.

    Her and Judge Judy mention they have never belonged to a women’s group because, ultimately, the default stance is you are a victim of circumstances and need special privileges to succeed.

    They both know this is a self defeating stance to take on life.

    These are the kind of women that were in my family. I’ll always prefer to be around these type of women. The others are not only a danger to you, but tiresome to be around even on their best days. Men aren’t going to get a fair shake with them and you will constantly be bombarded with comments how men suck at every turn.

    Miserable people. Don’t want to be around men that hate women and always say derogatory things behind women’s backs, either. Goes both ways, which I think helps perpetuate the attitude they are right about the other sex sucking.

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  8. @ John MAY 19, 2019 AT 4:28 AM

    Yup. You sum it up well.

    Gather `round boys and consider John’s words as you enter the wilds of life on your own.

    Be cautious, but also, don’t be a dick and think all women suck.

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  9. WOMEN AND BLACKS

    They are so litigious that it’s better to be sued for NOT hiring them, than to hire and get sued later by them.

    Either way, they are a legal liability.

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  10. @ Wyatt

    And thus MGTOW was born.

    Although, I think most of these guys are Women Haters in general. Maybe even gay the way they go on and try to get other men to HATE all women.

    All? Yeah, have fun with that. Not seeing how there is any future there.

    Not even the gays I know hate women that much. Something more is going on.

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  11. “Something more is going on.”

    They’ve been badly burned by an almost invariably pro-woman system, or have seen men they know – friends, brothers, uncles, their own fathers – used and abused by women who are held responsible for little short of murder (excluding abortion, of course).

    For example, in some circles of professing Christendom it is considered indisputable fact that if a marriage is failing or fails, it automatically goes back to the failing of the husband no matter what the wife did. If she commits adultery on him, gets pregnant by other men without telling her husband, SOMEHOW, it’s ultimately his fault.

    Women, who as a group are much more susceptible to believing attractive lies than men, buy into it and spread the self-justifying virus into their own marriages.

    Men have had enough because they’ve caught on to the scam. They realize that husbands and fathers are targeted to becoming endangered species. That’s why they’re hanging it up and going their own way.

    The end result will be the continued dissolution of society, which was the goal of feminism and every evil branch of the weed of leftism.

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  12. Hmmmmm… MAYBE the chicks oughta go home, have babies, and make their husbands sammichs then – like back in the GOO ol’ days! 😀

    Gimmee a beer der, huh Edith? 😉

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  13. Mrs. Guevara was telling me about this on Friday. She said the usual CBS numbnuts were just dumbfounded that this could be and that the only logical reason why men would stop taking private meetings or mentoring women was that they knew they could not be trusted to not sexually assault or rape their co-workers. They know that they can’t stop their primordial urges.

    It’s not like women lie to get ahead or anything.

    However, Emily Lindin and Dr. Angela Confidential are available for comment.

    https://www.ajc.com/news/national/writer-emily-lindin-closes-her-twitter-after-sexist-tweets/iBlrMp8KTQx6Zd1R8M3gZL/

    https://pjmedia.com/drhelen/destroy-man-now-truth-satire/

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  14. From that Dr. Helen article,

    “The question is: how do we make it unprofitable (or have ramifications) for these groups and women to slander men?”

    You can’t. As Dr. Helen herself observed, there’s a system in place which makes it oh so easy to make insane profits for far too many powerful people and interests. That won’t ever change, or be changed, short of complete societal collapse. So it will continue as it has, all at the continued expense of men who often did nothing wrong…except be men.

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  15. I’m living it every day. Beware the “Male gaze”.
    I don’t want to be caught making eye contact for 0.5 seconds too long.

    Hell, I was being run down by this one bitch manager for two years in consensus meetings for not making long enough eye contact when I passed them in a hallway once. It’s insanity.

    You know, you make eye contact and a head nod of acknowledgment but I’m not staring you down until I get an appropriate response.

    Nope. I looked away too fast.

    She would have kept going with it if I hadn’t worked with so many other women who stood up for me.

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  16. Most women today are aberrations. They forgot, or never learned, what happens throughout history every time there’s a collapse and people are reduced to survival mode tribalism. With all the artificial status, shielding and insulation of civilization stripped away, women suddenly realize how brutal and ugly the world really is without defenders (men) who will value and abide them, and so QUICKLY learn to mind their place in the natural scheme. I’m not saying it’s a good thing for them when it happens, but it is true and natural, like it or not. It is what happens.

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  17. I was going to respond to Anonymous May 18, 2019 at 11:54 pm, and then Wyatt, and then … geeze, guys. You are breaking my heart.

    I know it’s not my responsibility, but could I apologize for my sex being so screwed up? You know, it all started with Eve talking Adam into sharing her sin so she didn’t have to face God’s disappointment and condemnation alone.

    Seriously, I can’t understand why women want to blame men for their own weaknesses. I don’t know about life before I was born, but I have never felt held back by the ‘system’, only by my own choices. I know there are hateful men and women in the world; I’ve met a few, but they don’t rule how I live my life. Sure, I’ve had bad relationships, but it never has been ‘all men’. Life isn’t always pleasant, so you learn your lesson and carry on living. You stay true to yourself and treat people as individuals and not a part of a larger group (men vs women).

    I made a comment, in another thread, a few days ago about not wanting to live in a world controlled by women. Feminists have done so much damage to our precious men. They hate themselves, so they blame men; they want to destroy them. We are seeing the results of their hate for the last half century. I don’t like it, not at all.

    I’m sorry, guys. Please know that there ARE women who will stand with you.

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  18. Cliche Guevara MAY 19, 2019 AT 10:38 AM

    I had a bitch manager that wasn’t over me but ran the rest of the employees in the factory. I was the mechanic for the shift she worked.

    I was the only male on that shift and got along great with everyone else.

    I never understood why I always had problems with her and her alone until one night at the local pub. She wanted me and I wasn’t giving her the attention she wanted. One kiss and everything was different from then on. Smiles every day afterwards even though it only happened once.

    It was my wife’s idea. She worked there too. This was not an idea I had even considered beforehand. OOOkay. Whatever works. Just stop being a bitch to me.

    Goodness. I can imagine I’m thrown in the hoosegow today if I didn’t report her sexual pressure first.

    This would be an example of “the good old days” where things weren’t as crazy as they are now.

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  19. So there will have to be more affirmative action programs, to force men to mentor.

    The important thing is that the lawyers get rich litigating our lives.

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  20. Claudia, thank you! Your kind of lady used to be the rule. Now you’re so exceptional and rare that many saddened men consider you to be a myth. They’ve never even seen a woman like you so they’ve given up.

    Yours are the voices those men desperately need to hear, not other guys like me who only describe what went wrong.

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