This is Jody Allard. This woman is so deranged she has written a piece about “rape culture” where she makes a tantamount admission to the mental abuse of her sons.
RoleReboot –
I’m Done Pretending Men Are Safe (Even My Sons)
One of my sons was hurt by my words, although he’s never told me so.
He is angry at me now, although he won’t admit that either, and his anger led him to conservative websites and YouTube channels; places where he can surround himself with righteous indignation against feminists, and tell himself it’s ungrateful women like me who are the problem.
I teeter frequently between supporting my son and educating him. Is it my job as his mother to ensure he feels safe emotionally, no matter what violence he spews?
When I confront him with his own sexism, I question whether I’m pushing too hard and leaving him without an emotional safe space in his home.
But, feminist or not, the men are no different from the men anywhere else and I quickly felt deflated. If the feminist men — the men who proudly declare their progressive politics and their fight for quality — aren’t safe, then what man is? No man, I fear.
…if it’s impossible for a white person to grow up without adopting racist ideas, simply because of the environment in which they live, how can I expect men not to subconsciously absorb at least some degree of sexism?
My sons won’t rape unconscious women behind a dumpster, and neither will most of the progressive men I know.
I’m through wasting my time on people who are more interested in ideas than feelings, and I’m through pretending these people, these men, are safe.
This is not a reflection of something broken or damaged in me; it is a reflection of the systems we build and our boys absorb. Those little boys grow into men who know the value of women, the value that’s been ascribed to us by a broken system, and it seeps out from them in a million tiny, toxic ways.
As a single mother, I sometimes wonder whether the real problem is that my sons have no role models for the type of men I hope they become. But when I look around at the men I know, I’m not sure a male partner would fill that hole.
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Well, there’s no way I’m filling her hole.
And I think the type of man she wants her sons to become aren’t interesting in filling any women’s holes, either.
What this idiotic, abusive essay is lacking is her description of the perfect man. It’s lacking because the perfect man for her is a woman.
And even then she’ll find a problem with the women in her life because she is damaged goods. She needs mental health professionals… and they can’t be men.. or women that would suggest she has mental health issues.
In short, she’s f*cked. Her hole is filled.
ht/ SuicideChickenWing
“I’m through wasting my time on people who are more interested in ideas than feelings…”
Uh huh.
“My sons won’t rape unconscious women behind a dumpster, and neither will most of the progressive men I know.”
Most??? Is that like 51%?
“I am more interested in feelings
than ideas”. That sums up the entire
leftard’s belief system…
The hell with Jody Allard. Is that guy in the background clubbing baby seals?
That was incoherent rambling filled with all the lib buzzwords. The dude that filled that hole must have been raped behind a dumpster.
How the heck does her selfie feature on her phone keep from breaking?
That’s the only way a woman that ugly could get her picture taken.
I wonder how old her sons are. The only thing positive about her, is she didn’t abort.
What shocks me is the husband left her….
Somebody actually boinked her???
A single mom. Well, color me shocked. Who in the world was drunk enough to impregnate that troll. Those poor boys of hers…at least the silver lining is that at least one of them is being driven from darkness to light in his search for conservative websites.
I’m certain she would be quite safe around me. Or, from me would perhaps be a more accurate way to state that.
Jody All Lard.
This is The Onion, right?
Also, her nickname is “Crisco”?
Big Fur Spoof.
It’s good that her son is resisting her lunacy. She’s trying to emasculate him. It sounds like she’d be happy if he got castrated.
Tired Mom: My thoughts as well. It sounds like at least one of her sons is making an attempt to escape the asylum of this nuts grasp. I wish him Godspeed.
She should go to Seattle or Portland, the wussyboy of her dreams is waiting for her there.
“This is not a reflection of something broken or damaged in me; it is a reflection of the systems we build and our boys absorb”.
plush little hen
I think this insanities ridden bitch of a mother ought to start watching Hitchcok’s “Pyscho” again, and again, over and over because that’s her destiny if child services don’t come and collect her boys now.
The people on the left are mentally ill and they are criminals and they are the deviants in our society.
It’s just a fact.
She looks like Andrea Dworkin just before the moles and boils.
Dat bitch need hep.
Is anything considered private any more? Or must we suffer through every nut job’s moral angst? If I toted up the “benefits”/”liabilities” columns for social media and the internet, some days make the case for one of those impulse thingys that wipe out the grid.
Her main problem is that she was… “born that way”. As a woman, I could add a whole bunch of adjectives, but it’s not my show.
The only women I see spewing on about rape culture and men bashing in general are the ones totally protected from rape; protected from rape because they are butt ugly.
If you ever wondered what the mother of a serial killer was like, and how he ended up as he did, now you know.
These bints have enough sense in their heads not to walk around claiming “men want me, men would love to have me, men desire me, men can’t resist me.” We’ve all seen this sort of derangement. (To be blunt and fair, guys suffer from this more often.)
These “feminists” are just self-aware enough to know that this would be absurdly vainglorious considering their looks and lack of desirability.
So they run around saying they are worried men will rape them.
Now you become the asshole if you laugh at them.
Wrong.
I’d bet that her boys’ dad is a turkey baster.
Back in the day ugly little trolls use to marry other ugly little trolls and raise a little ugly little troll colony. That was the house on your block that never cut their lawn. They stayed in side watching reruns of Lassie and kept to themselves because they knew they were ugly little trolls. At an early age they could have been mistaken as nerds.
Now days every little ugly troll has some twisted thing to say. They all have a strange slant on reality because after all, they were raised by ugly little trolls. I blame political correctness.
Im not making light of rape, but logic tells me if a rapist is going to rape someone, the rapist would find someone appealing to them. After all, if they are going to commit a heinous crime like rape, you would think one would try to find the most attractive person they could. This scrunt above is safe.
I never believed the whole Duke lacrosse thing from the very beginning because of this logic, btw.
Uncle al, She couldnt have sex or rape a man because if they saw her they’d go limp, right?
Here’s a question I would love to ask this deranged nutbag –
If rape wasn’t illegal, what percentage of men would rape women?
I’m positive she’d say 100%.
“I’m through wasting my time on people who are more interested in ideas than feelings, ”
Which means, I’m not listening to any factual data or truths, I’m only paying attention to my feelings.
Rape is illegal?
Are her boys as white as she is, or some other half-breed color?
The turkey baster is using this screed as Exhibit 1 to gain custody.
That last name’s kind of a give away, isn’t it?
All-lard.
I see a lot of lonely Mother’s Days in her future. And she better save enough money so in her ‘Golden Years’ she can afford a personal nurse. otherwise those two sons will shove her into the first shitty nursing home they see on their way out of town.
She’s from Seattle, that explains a lot. Also here is her “about” page
from her website:
Jody Allard is a former techie turned freelance writer living in Seattle. Her online work has appeared on HuffPo, Time, Scary Mommy, xoJane, and Offbeat Home, among others. She writes primarily about social justice and feminist issues, mothering, and life with a chronic [( Mental)< I added that] illness.
Happiness is a seriously deranged, virtue signaling, self righteous whine…
I hope her kids leave as soon as possible and never talk to her again. EVER. Hideous, insane cunt.
As for rape, it’s not about picking someone you are attracted to. It’s about power and control. Plenty of not good looking women have been raped. And elderly women. I can’t count how many stories I’ve seen of 70,80 year old women being beaten and raped.
The mentally ill are flocking to Social Justice causes because they can easily fit in and hide behind the rhetoric. They will be swallowed up and destroyed by the SJ warriors.
Whoever banged “her” was a faggot and thought “she” was a dude. Or maybe she raped a wino in an alley. Be honest, that’s dude isn’t it?
I’m thinking the Sperm donors name was Dull Lard
Damn! I left out pathetic…
Well, I’m glad — and eternally grateful to The Constitution — that we can ensure domestic tranquility, through the peaceful transfer of power, at the ballot box, via general suffrage… what the hell was I… I think I might have stroked out for a moment there. Anyway. I’m glad that her, and her rebelling but broken son, and her quiet broken son, are all allowed to vote. Forever and ever. To decide who sticks a gun in my face and takes my wallet. (Thankfully, nothing like “rape culture,” at all.) Why, if I didn’t serve The Constitution, people like Ms. Allard, and her sons, would have to actually rob me, themselves. That would be horrible. Just horrible. Thanks, Constitution!
Does this cuckoo clock go off every quarter hour or just on hour?
I’ve been a scout leader for 17 years. Occasionally, we get single moms (alone or in groups) who claim to want their sons to have good male role models join the pack or troop. It generally turns out like the article above (no raping of course). They see us set goals, maintain standards, refuse to cave or coddle, and demand performance. All the while they pamper and fawn on their little princes. It typically lasts no more than a year and the kid “changes his mind about scouting” and does something else – like dance.
Don’t get me wrong, I can appreciate the arts, but they are generally not going to teach young men the skills they need to survive and thrive.
IMHO these women want their sons to be the kind of men they themselves wanted to so badly to marry, but have no idea of the hard work, time, and effort that goes into making them those kind of men.
BTW, don’t get me started on the “BS” in BSA. My Troop isn’t like National.
I gots news for ya lady… In his guts yer son knows yer nutz!
Rush’s undeniable truth #24: Feminism was established so as to allow unattractive women access to the mainstream of society.
@Charlie WalksonWater:
Absolutely right. Any man with enough virility to get an erection and ejaculate would react to her as Superman does to Kryptonite.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ndL4jQ_xqrQ
Amiright guys?
@AbigailAddams “…some days make the case for one of those impulse thingys that wipe out the grid.”
special asteroid to arrive.
And then, I look at Reddit. A particular corner, somewhat technically oriented.
Then things get all better. These idiots at large, free range morons with keyboard and ignorance, and they are here to share something truly special. Their understanding of the world. Which I have to admit, the one they inhabit bears scant resemblance to the one I live in everyday. Theirs is so much more interesting.
I find them comic relief after a busy day. Bless ’em each and every one. Their earnest posts make my attempts a humor pale.
Wow, that post got mangled.
I’ll bet money her son wears tube socks with his shorts.
@Lowell — I think I know what you’re saying. Honestly, 4chan is my go-to for giggles. That they call themselves “autistic” makes me laugh every single time. I have a very odd but brilliant friend who is a Kek. He probably has an off-the-charts IQ and smokes too much weed, but for some reason he and I can have the most mind-bending conversations, you know, the kind where it’s almost like a mind meld. Sometimes I wonder if I’m having a contact high (even though he doesn’t smoke it around me). Great fun. So glad he’s on the conservative front lines of the conservative millenials.
Pepe!
…oh, forgot most important part: You, Lazlo, BB and a whole host of others here at iotwreport also keep me laughing and sane. So many good comments/observations. I overlook Fur and his puerile sensibilities. (I put that in there to see if he’s reading the comments)
This is your brain with only X chromosomes.
Bat crazy. Her poor sons are in for 20+ years of serious therapy and emotional detox. They’ll escape as soon as they can and won’t speak to her for many long years.
They’ll still hate her well into their 40s, maybe 50s.
The Left is composed of the Mentally Ill.
It used to be just a percentage, then a majority, and now it’s gone unanimous Full Psycho.
Eradication is inevitable.
You got that right, nobody will fill that hole. Get a turkey baster.
“I’m through wasting my time on people who are more interested in ideas than feelings … ”
I’m through wasting my time on people who mistake their feelings for ideas.
I wonder how old her sons are? If they are of age, they need to dump their emotional vampire mother. She will forever ruin their lives and if they choose to get married, she’ll do her best to ruin the marriage. I had to do this to my egg donor, and I’ve been freed from her dislike of everyone she meets and tried to destroy all of her children’s lives and marriages. The only thing we share is DNA and that’s it. I hope her sons run from her and fast!
“Young white men are at the highest risk of suicide.” — Jody Allard in a Washington Post article
Is it any wonder?
@Goldenfoxx (aka The Gloater — LOL!)
That’s so sad. I hate it when I read about parents and children (of any age) having an irreconcilable rift. I know there are reasons for them. It’s just awfully sad, though. I was estranged from my mother for a long time because of her alcoholism. She quit a few decades ago and now we have a very close relationship. I never stopped hoping.
I’m thinking of setting up a real War Room like the one of the movie title. There are so many who need our prayers. I think it would be time well spent.
Hey, I thought she was kinda cute; I’d hit it. (someone had to post it.)
@AbigailAdams – “puerile sensibilities” – now THERE’S a real oxymoron!
@Unca Al — lol! You’re right, sir.
Greyscape hit that before he died.
Most fat women are lesbians, who cares what they think in men. I really could care less unless this whale invades my safe space.
What a sick loser. Those kids deserve so much better than this harpie.